Thoughts of a 20 year old child💭

“   A woman becomes emotionally invested in the man that she has sex with and is physically intimate with-unless she’s a prostitute and has learnt to detach herself.”  I totally agree with this statement because I am woman and woman is me and this applies to most women out there(unless, you’re doing whoocup or you got an A + in a detachment course, no offense though). Now the thing is; why is it this way? Why we women? Why can’t men in general be emotionally invested in a woman they are intimate with? And why can’t we ladies be like “ yeah, i fucked him and I don’t feel a thing” or “Nah, it was just casual sex to me”. Why do we have to put our emotions the moment we become all physical with a man and once the whole thing ends, the sex is more like a loss to us? (So many whys here though 😂)  My best friend, (whom I intend to keep anonymous but let’s call her “S”, yes S would do) said to me, that to men, sex is casual, the rate of them being emotionally attached is quite l...

 Okay, (breathes in and out😂). Apparently, this is meant to be an introduction yeahhh? Let me get to it. I’m Jessica, I’m 20(I don’t look it though). I’m a law student in Abuja (it’s quite exhausting yunno.). And I’m starting a blog to find a sense of purpose because the self discovery thingy is exhausting than I thought it will be. Oh well. At an age, where I’m trying to figure things out, trying to figure myself out and I’m feeling too much. This should be an outlet for me to pen(or type??) down my thoughts and maybe see things through another perspective (oh yeah, this is where y’all comments and opinions comes in😮‍💨). Oh well, eventually we’d get all this figured out. I’ll try my very best to drop something everyday and i hope that you drop your opinions and all because it’ll really go a long way. Gracias ☺️. So, let’s make this an interesting journey. Shouldn’t we?